Heart of the Matter Blog

A collection of insights into life, love and the search for truth



What was that storm that blew through the American (worldwide?) consciousness this late summer? A woman was compelled to share a very relevant truth and hold someone accountable. It had never been done to that extent, and with such consequences. It was a high moment in a rallying cry for far better encounters in the sexual realm. It turned out rather oddly… But what did it all mean?  My spoken word piece:


Have a listen to my conversation with Emma Johnson at WealthySingleMommy.com on the Like a Mother Podcast. Emma gives away $1,000 of her own dollars every month to single moms doing amazing things. I was selected for November 2017 as the “Kickass Single Mom” grant recipient.

How did I get into this work? What is a rite of passage? Who was my inspiration?  Hear my very first recorded conversation online. 


So, how do we begin talking to kids about sexuality?  What are some guidelines, parameters… give me context, please!

A piece I wrote for the Youth Passageways Network blog, called Speaking Reverence, Speaking Truth. Written for rite of passage guides, but relevant to anyone who cares for and oversees young people (and longs for more comfort in addressing sexuality).  Enjoy!